How to Stop Self-Sabotaging Your Weight Loss and Fitness Goals

 

Do you want to know why you self-sabotage your goals? On the new Strong. Confident. His. Podcast, you will learn the shocking reasons behind it, how to stop it, and a helpful tool I teach called the 3 Ts.

Friend, you want to know these.


The most surprising part about self-sabotage is why we do it The answer to this is shocking! When I learned what I’m going to teach you today, it was a game-changer. You may not even realize this but once you spot it you’re going to be like, “Wow!”

Our Foundational Scripture

Look carefully then how you walk, not as unwise but as wise, making the best use of the time, because the days are evil. (Ephesians 5:15–16 ESV)

What is Self-sabotage?

The reason why you self-sabotage is that it allows you to predict what is going to happen, which gives you the illusion of self-control.

One source shared this, There is The Illusion of Control Through Self-Sabotage, Because this form of self-control, albeit negative, reassures...

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The First Step to Fitness Success

 My Before and After

I know someone else needs to hear this. I'm praying as I'm typing that it will help you and you won't give up on your health and fitness goals.

It's hard for me to be vulnerable and share my before photo. To be honest, I don't have many old photos because I threw them away. I was horrified by pictures back then. 

This picture on the left is me before God. I was only 25. I had never worked out consistently, didn't know how to eat healthy, and I was miserable in my skin.

All I knew was dieting. That's what the world taught me. My weight went up and down and so did my worth.

But God! He met me in my pain and He helped me, so as your sister in Christ,  I'm going to share the first step that I took that changed everything. I made you a helpful guide that lays out the steps. Download it here. 

My Before. Without God in my fitness:

  • I was taught dieting was how you get healthy
  • I relied on willpower and self-confidence
  • My weight went up...
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Could A Past Trauma Be Blocking Your Fitness Goals? With Alisa Keeton

Do you sometimes feel as though your body is a problem to solve? Discover how to make it part of the solution instead. Alisa Keeton poses and answers this question on today’s episode. Alisa is an accomplished Author, Speaker, and the Founder of Revelation Wellness. Join us as we dive into the transformative power of faith in our healing and cover these topics:

  • Understanding Pain and Trauma:

Alisa explains how pain affects our health, emphasizing the impact of past trauma on our well-being.

  • Healing Partnership with the Body:

 Alisa explores the concept of partnering with our bodies to facilitate healing, encouraging a holistic approach to wellness.

 Watch the Live Taping of our conversation below!

  • Mending the Mind-Body-Soul Connection:

The importance of mending the broken connection between mind, body, and soul is discussed, highlighting the interconnectedness of these elements in our overall health.

       
  • 6 Steps to Metabolize Pain:

Alisa shares practical...

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Looking Back to See How God Is Always Working

Feeling like you're never going to reach your goals, feeling the weight of unanswered prayers, or questioning your calling? This is for you! As a sister in faith, I want to inspire and motivate you to recognize that your dreams are not impossible with God. Please listen above or scroll down to watch the Live Taping.

I was praying about how to end the 2023 Strong. Confident His. Podcast Season. It took a moment of pause and reflection to see God’s undeniable hand over every minute of 2023.

What unfolded were remarkable moments of God's grace, guiding every minute of the past 12 months. As I share my experiences, you'll witness how walking in faith, even in the face of doubts, led to incredible outcomes.

I'm not one to boast, but I feel compelled to acknowledge the divine support that carried me through 2023. Battling feelings of who me, being too old, or the thinking that it's too late, I chose to turn away from the devil's lies and follow the path laid out by Jesus....

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5 Things I Would Tell My Younger Self

Birthdays have a way of making us reflect, don't they? I recently celebrated my 55th birthday, but you know what they say, age is just a number. I feel more alive than ever, and whether you're 15 or 90 or somewhere in between, these life lessons I've gathered over the years are like a compass pointing straight to Jesus.

I'm going to be sharing three foundational scriptures, here is our first.

“Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication, with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God; 7 and the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus.” – Philippians 4:6-7 NKJV

5 Lessons I Wish My Younger Self Knew

1: If God isn't in it, you don't want it! 

You know, it's so easy to get caught up in the hustle and bustle of life, chasing after things that glitter but may not be gold. If God's not at the center, it's like building a house on sand. Sweet friend, trust His plan. If...

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Week 3 Recap: Fitness Bible Study Challenge

Hi Sweet Friend! Today we are going over the days 15 - 21 of our Fitness Bible Study Challenge!

This 21-Day Fitness Bible Study Challenge answers the questions of what God says about fitness, and how to incorporate God into fitness, and because it’s November, we are leaning into the spirit of gratitude and learning to be grateful, not hateful of our bodies.

This challenge will help you build a foundation of fitness based on the Word of God and help you create results with power, peace, and grace.

You can still sign up and do the challenge at your own pace here: https://www.kimdolanleto.com/21daychallenge.

Day 15

Pray for God to make your fitness goals more about serving Him and less about what you look like.

Rather than make fitness all about what you look like, make it about how you live and who you live for. God has placed gifts in you and called you to tell people about Him. When you think of fitness motivation begin to consider getting fit to serve, for example, to go on...

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Week 2 Recap: Fitness Bible Study Challenge

Learn What the Bible Says About Fitness and 7 Ways to Incorporate God into Your Fitness 

Do you want to learn more about how to incorporate God into your fitness and what Christian fitness is? 

Today I’m going to share 7 ways to start doing that now!

Many of us are exhausted doing fitness the world’s way and we don’t realize that we have been trying to answer spiritual issues with world-based solutions. As we try to get fit, learn how to create healthy eating habits, and find peace with our body images, we need godly guidance. Maybe it never occurred to you to open your Bible before heading to the gym for your fitness but inviting God into our health and wholeness is the piece of the puzzle that has been missing. 

 

Today we are recapping the second week of our 21-Day Fitness Bible Study Challenge

This 21-day challenge is a Bible-based guide to give you the foundation of God’s love for you in your fitness. He is with you in your...

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22 Bible Verses Every Woman Needs to Control Her Emotions

 

In the last three years the world has really changed, right?! Anxiety is at an all-time high, but as Christians, we don’t need to worry and fear, we need to stand on the Word. It is our sword! It is what we fight with. 

What we believe affects the way we think, feel, and live. It’s very hard for us to act or feel better unless we believe better. Today, I want to share 22 scriptures to help us control our emotions and enable us to protect our mental,  emotional, and physical health.

Science and the Bible

I was at Church and the Pastor mentioned a recent study. I wish I knew the source, but it stated that when we talk about something stressful it activates a part of our brain that increases anxiety, but when we pray about it reduces anxiety. Science is catching up to the Bible. 

One of the reasons we feel our emotions is because we want to be in control, but if we’re honest we have no control. We don’t need to try to be in control, we...

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From Broken to Beautiful: How Your Fitness Resembles a Home Renovation Show!

 

I have a story to share with you today that gave me the best example of what is going on in our bodies when we are working out and eating healthy. I mean, how many times have you quit just becasue you’re not seeing results right?

I love it when God makes something so clear, well that is exactly what He did with this story I’m going to share. Recently, I was getting my nails done and the salon had Fixer Upper on, it’s a home renovation show. I love home renovation shows. 

As I watched this sweet older married couple apprehensively allow their old home to be torn down to the studs, and I mean even the foundation was cracked and needed to be redone, God spoke to my heart and showed me something you need to hear... a fitness transformation is just like a home renovation.

See the parallel:

  • Imagine your body as a home being renovated. 
  • What year was it built?
  • What storms has it been through?
  • How has it been cared for?
  • How much work does it need to...
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You Didn’t Miss It! God’s Best is Worth the Wait! With Wendy Griffith

 

If you’ve been praying for a husband and you feel like you’re getting older and losing hope, this is going to remind you that you still deserve the fairy tale. I recently had the pleasure of interviewing television personality and author Wendy Griffith and her story is filling women with hope!

I met Wendy when she interviewed me on The 700 Club and we’ve been friends ever since.

Wendy has a story of inspiration for women who are looking for a Godly husband. She was living her dream as an international reporter and news anchor for the Christian Broadcasting Network but the one thing she really wanted was to fall in love and get married, but it seemed life was passing her by.

Watch the full video of our chat here or click the image below!

Wendy shares about her new book, You Didn’t Miss It! God’s Best Is Worth the Wait! She is a trusted friend who has been there and wants to guide you through:

- How she found a godly man

- How to enjoy life...

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